Just because they find that date 'lovely' in the context in which they know them doesn't mean you will。
她们认为一场约会是美好的，并不代表对你而言也是一样的。
You wouldn't buy a house just on the say-so of Mrs Bloggs three doors down。
你不会因为住在离你三户远的布洛格斯太太(MrsBloggs)随口说的一句话，就买下一座房子。
You always have to do your own due diligence。
所以，你要认真地考虑问题。
10. Leave the paperwork at home
丢掉幻想
Women are terrible at playing 'Fantasy Future' - they go on a first date and, provided the man isn't an obvious freak or psychopathic monster, they get busy imagining their future life with that person。
女性在幻想美好方面往往很不成功。她们在第一次约会时，只要男性不是一个情绪反复无常的怪人或是精神失常的怪物，接下来，她们开始忙于沉浸在和约会对象未来生活的幻想中。
A first date is not designed to be a marriage contract., it's simply the start of getting to know another person。
第一次约会并不是要制定一份结婚条约，而是双方相互了解的开始。
If you find yourself fantasising about that happy future, take a cold shower, or speak to a grounded friend。
如果你发觉自己开始沉浸在对未来的美好幻想之中，赶紧去洗个冷水澡或是找一位好友聊一聊。
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